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Breastfeeding, Nursing, Motherhood, First Time Mum, Soothing, Taking the Baby Outside, Care for Your Baby, Tips to Help Take Care of Your Baby

Breastfeeding, Nursing, Motherhood, First Time Mum, Soothing, Taking the Baby Outside, Care for Your Baby, Tips to Help Take Care of Your Baby

Having your first baby and worried about how best to take care of the child?

Having a baby can be a magical experience for most parents. While you stand in awe looking at the tiny bundle of joy that you have made, you also begin worrying.
Will I be able to take care of the baby?
How do I know when the child is hungry?
Is the baby getting too much sleep?
How do I get enough sleep?

Asian mother holding newborn baby in hospital bed

Questions like these will be swirling in your mind and as you get closer to having the baby, new questions will take their place!

You are not alone. Many before you have probably had the same good share of uncertainties and came through as happy mothers all the same. Let us share some insights and hopefully these will set your mind at peace and contribute to helping you become a happy First-Time-Mum.

One thing that you need to know about babies is that they love to sleep and they need to be fed. Of course their diet at this stage would consist solely of milk. The good news is that you might just be fully equipped with the diet that the baby needs conveniently in your breasts. That said, breastfeeding can be a tad bit testing initially, but you’ll be rewarded by an explainable sense of joy when the child starts feeding. You may have heard from others about sore nipples and even how frustrating it is to have the baby latch on and so forth and feeling weary and discouraged, but rest assured that mother nature would not have had it designed such if it wasn’t right.

A study involving 20 mothers of preterm infants describes the following rewards and efforts of breastfeeding — “Knowing they were providing the healthiest nutrition for the infant, enhancing closeness between the mother and infant, perceiving infant contentment and tranquility during breastfeeding, providing convenience for the mother, and giving the mother a tangible claim on the infant.” Most mothers identified some “efforts” associated with breastfeeding their preterm infants, but indicated that overall, breastfeeding was a rewarding experience.
Should you anticipate difficulty in nursing your child, there is nothing wrong with seeking help. Help will be available to you right from the beginning in the form of the nurse who delivers your child. Ask for advice. Discuss with your baby’s pediatrician. You can also talk to friends with experience or hire the services of a lactation consultant. When it is time for your child to eventually begin using the bottle, the best way is to bring the bottle into the picture as soon as you begin breastfeeding successfully. Ideally, this should be done before your baby turns 3-months old.

This is another important part of having a baby. You should understand that babies cry. They will cry when they are hungry. They will cry when they are in pain or feeling uncomfortable. They will cry if they are sleepy.
When your baby cries, a good idea is to make her feel as if she is still inside the womb. This can often soothe fussy infants. In order to make your baby feel comforted, hold the baby resting upright against your body and make shushing noises while patting the back of the child very lightly. You can also put on white noise. It calms some babies because the white noise mimics the sound they were used to when inside the womb. The absence of the sound can be a bit discomforting for them, which is sometimes why they cry as well.
Lastly, this method will work for babies whose umbilical cord stub has fallen off. If nothing else is working and your baby isn’t hungry, sick, or sleepy, then a good soak might help. Try taking a warm bath together. It will calm both you and the baby, which very often causes the baby to fall asleep soon afterwards, allowing you space to do other things or even rest while the child is asleep.

Taking the Baby Out
First things first, take your baby out to places where they are welcome. Parks and bookstores are two such examples. You’ll find that you need the outing just as much.
Pack extras for the baby, and for yourself too. Accidents happen and you won’t want to be stuck in poo or pee covered clothes all day long. So, it makes good sense to pack extra for yourself as well.

Becoming a mother for the first time can seem overwhelming, but many will tell you that the rewards will outweigh efforts. You will soon find out and able to confirm for yourself that all those disturbing concerns that are racking your mind, are groundless. The real joys of being a Mom will be gradually unfolded to your amazement as you become more hands-on.


Be prepared at the beach with these helpful gadgets



Be prepared at the beach with these helpful gadgets that make your life easier and more enjoyable.

Worry-Free Jamming
ECOXPRO Waterproof Case

This durable waterproof case for smart phones also doubles as a speaker. Not to mention, has pockets to store credit cards, license, etc. The ECOXPRO is a useful gadget to jam out to on the beach OR float next to you in the water while protecting your phone from the elements.

Sand-free Dream
CGear Sand-Free Tote

This is every person’s dream at the beach…
Are you ready for it?
A sand-free bag for the beach! Are you tired of having sand everywhere or worried about it ruin your phone, in the lunch you brought, getting all over your car, or in your house? Also, it is durable with extra-strength straps for cans of soda or beer *wink* and an ocean-themed pattern which is aesthetically pleasing.

Well isn’t this S’well

S’well Textiles Collection Water Bottle

Stay hydrated, look cool, and help others all in one water bottle by S’well. S’well water bottles have absolutely beautiful hand-painted pastel marble designs AND the best part is when you buy a S’well bottle, some of the proceeds go to helping provide clean water and sanitation to communities in-need in Africa. Also, if it couldn’t get any better, a S’well bottle keeps a beverage cold for up to 24 hours.

Pimped out Goggles
Liquid Image Model 305 Hydra Series HD 720P

This high-tech dive mask has an HD camcorder to shoot wide-angle footage in high definition with audio, can capture still images, continuous shots, and waterproof 130 ft under. Take the plunge with the liquid image model 305 Series HD 720P.

Battery Low?!
WakaWaka Charger

Do you get anxiety when your phone battery gets low? The WakaWaka charger is compact and light to solar charge your phone to full charge in two hours. The key is to make sure the WakaWaka Charger soaks in sun rays to solar panel or charge with a USB before going out. It also comes with a beacon light for emergencies. But the best part is that for every WakaWaka Charger you buy, another is sent to a family in-need in the Philippines.

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Vacay Reads

What’s better than your feet in the sand, a refreshing drink by your side, and a good book to read? Here are our top picks for

What’s better than your feet in the sand, a refreshing drink by your side, and a good book to read? Here are our top picks for vacation reads for the beach, mountains, or wherever you may journey. There are different themes for all: whether you are in a light-hearted chick flick mood, an intense on-the-edge of your seat thriller, a child-told fantasy book, or an emotional book about internal struggles of living in this chaotic world. Read on to find out which book grabs your attention the most for a great holiday read.

The Rumor
By Elin Hilderbrand
Are you looking for a laid-back beach read? If chick flicks are your guilty pleasure movies, then try The Rumor a book about two best friends, Madeline and Grace who go on double dates for the summer drinking cocktails at sunset, but a rumor arises and changes everything. The rumor snow balls and the question is… will their friendship ever be the same?

Girl on the Train
By Paula Hawkins
Girl on the Train is a psycho thriller that will make you question the lives of others.
Rachel has recently gone through a loss and one way she copes is seeing the happiness in a suburban house that she passes on her morning commute. She only has about a minute to glance at the loving family before her train moves on but she is content.
Something drastically changes when Rachel witnesses something in that small moment of time and wonders if she should tell the police what she saw. From then on she is immersed and may be hindering rather than helping.
Girl on the Train is a thriller you won’t want to put down.

By Emma Donoghue
Room is a place of love and comfort for Jack, but for his ma, it’s prison; a place she has been trapped for seven years by Old Nick. With Ma’s strong urge for Jack to live a better life, she concocts a plan to escape. But did Ma think about what happens after they do escape and what other world is out there?
Room is a brilliant book of fear, resilience, and bond. Did we mention, the book is told from the perspective of five year old Jack.

Where are you Bernadette
By Maria Semple
Bernadette is bold, blunt, and outspoken. She’s a revolutionary architect and mother/best friend to fifteen year old Bee.
They live in Seattle and the people and atmosphere has become too much for Bernadette and overtime has developed agoraphobia. However, Bernadette had promised Bee a trip to Antarctica if she received an “A” on her report card and as a matter of fact, Bee did, but Bernadette has disappeared.
Bee goes on a search for her mom and has to face the world head on.

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There are tons of talented singers in this world, but did you know that some singers have written top hits for other famous artists?

There are tons of talented singers in this world, but did you know that some singers have written top hits for other famous artists? Not all singers are songwriters, but Sia is an extraordinarily talented singer AND songwriter who is known for her incredible voice and mysteriously hidden face has written top hits for other artists. Be surprised and check out the list of songs below Sia has written from vulnerable lyrics to vocally challenging and catchy choruses.

Top Songs Sia Wrote:

“Expertease (Ready, Set, Go)” by Jennifer Lopez

“Opportunity” by Quvenzhané Wallis

“Diamonds” by Rihanna

“Making the Most of the Night” by Carly Rae Jepsen

“Chasing Shadows” by Shakira

“Get Over U” by Neon Hitch

“Blank Page” by Christina Aguilera

“Brightest Morning Star” by Britney Spears

“My Heart Is Open” by Maroon 5 featuring Gwen Stefani

“Double Rainbow” by Katy Perry

“Kiss Me Once” by Kylie Minogue

“Battlefield” by Lea Michele

“Boy Problems” by Carly Rae Jepsen

“Perfume” by Britney Spears

“Pretty Hurts” by Beyoncé

More Songs Written by Sia:

– “Godzillionaire” by Brooke Candy

– “Guitars and Microphones” by Kate Pierson

– “We Are One (Ole Ola)” by Pitbull, Jennifer Lopez and Claudia Leitte

– “Pop Rock” by Brooke Candy

– “Matrix” by Kate Pierson

– “Acid Rain” by Alexis Jordan

– “Any Day Now” by Cheyenne Jackson

– “I Will Get Over You” by Prischilla Ahn

– “These Hands I Hold” by Bo Bruce

– “Gentlemen” by Jessica Sanchez

– “Crush Me With Your Love” by Kate Pierson

– “Bound to You” by Christina Aguilera

– “God Made You Beautiful” by Beyoncé

– “She’s Pretty, She Lies” by Cheyenne Jackson

– “Freeze You Out” by Marina Kaye

– “Rise Up” by Beyoncé

– “Knock You Out” by Bingo Players

– “Don’t Look at Me” by Cheyenne Jackson

– “Kill, F—k, Marry” by Nikki Williams

– “Rock Bottom” by Marco Mengoni

– “Unite” by Jessie J

– “Bottoms Up” by Kate Pierson

– “Stronger Than Ever” by Christina Aguilera

– “You’re Mine” by Lea Michele

– “Opulence” by Brooke Candy

– “Mister Sister” by Kate Pierson

– “Break the Walls” by Fitz and the Tantrums

– “Strange Birds” by Birdy

– “Radioactive” by Rita Ora

– “Round Your Little Finger” by Katharine McPhee

– “Tears Fall” by Jacquie Lee

– “Breathe” by Jessie J

– “Firecracker” by Cheryl

– “You Don’t Know” by Will Young

– “The Game” by Kelly Rowland

– “You Lost Me” by Christina Aguilera

– “Bring Your Arms” by Kate Pierson

– “Let Me Love You (Until You Learn to Love Yourself)” by Ne-Yo

– “All I Need” by Christina Aguilera

– “Green Card” by Oh Land

– “Standing on the Sun” by Beyoncé

– “Invincible” by Kelly Clarkson

– “Loved Me Back to Life” by Celine Dion

– “Utopia” by Belinda

– “Time Wave Zero” by Kate Pierson

– “Flashlight” by Jessie J

– “Cannonball” by Lea Michele

– “Who Am I?” Jamie Foxx, Cameron Diaz and Quvenzhané Wallis

– “I Am” by Christina Aguilera

– “If You Say So” by Lea Michele

– “Let Your Tears Fall” by Kelly Clarkson

– “I Am Me” by Willow

– “The City’s Yours” by Jamie Foxx and Quvenzhané Wallis

– “Try Everything” by Shakira

– “Passenger” by Britney Spears

– “Pulls You Under” by Kate Pierson

– “Sexercise” by Kylie Minogue

– “Throw Down the Roses” by Kate Pierson

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